OUR ‘Why’


We want to positively affect people’s lives who lack confidence and skills by introducing them to a non-bias, simple self-defence approach for women and members of the lgbtq+ community and its allies that empower confidence and eases anxiety around gender-based violence.

With a functional and practical approach that can address the rising gender-based violence issue and address the lack of consideration within the martial arts industry. For the various degrees of abuse and violence towards women and the lgbtq+ community.

 

Core Values

 
  • Giving people from minority groups the opportunity to build confidence in a safe and friendly environment

    Unforchely many ‘self defence’ systems are not set up to support many groups of people, mostly because of the size of their classes and the structure of their courses. Although they may welcome all humans, there is a disconnect between welcoming people and the type of support and structure and content needed for them.

    While many professionals still argue that 'self defence' is self defence regardless of age, gender, sexual preference, race & ethnicity etc. The evidence and statistics say differently

  • Teach simple and effective self-defence skills

    There’s a balance between simple, effective and complicated. Many styles preach simplicity yet lack effectiveness, while others make things too complicated they become ineffective

    We test all our skills and will show variations and explain the pros and cons to all (because they all have cons). Plus we will work hard to find what works for you as an individual.

  • The content is always guided by the members

    Similar to the above value, the member's body type and attitude towards levels of aggression and the skills themselves will identify if a skill will work for that person or not (or might just need a little more time). Nevertheless, the content is guided by you. We also ask you what do you want to do/learn next? And always ask for honest feedback

  • We have a progressive process to learning and building confidence that is not currently seen in the self-defence industry

    The self-defence industry is where the gyms were 20 yrs ago. Every woman thought if they touched a weight, they would turn into a bodybuilder, and no woman would step foot in the weight room

    In the same way, the structure of modern self defence programmes does not accommodate people that do not know anything about fighting, yet on day one, they are expected to spar and probably with a man

    in addition, it can take months before you get to learn that technique again as teaching class will keep changing from week to week

    There are many more problems, but these are just three that we look at. We have a progressive way of learning and building confidence, one that lets you build on the previous session and leads to an opportunity to test

  • We focus our attention on anyone who has been negatively affected by Gender Based Violence (GBV)

    Our programme considers everyone that has been affected by GBV. We have even created a programme for people who have been affected.

    We also consider the many stages that an abuser would/could go throw before it becomes physically violent. Unlike many other self defence systems, we hold there's stages as being a primary problem we have to fix, which also means rewriting the rule book on what most people consider a self-defence strategy

    ‘94% of all violent attacks towards women are by a man, who they know’

    We have broken them up into 4 stages, so each technique or collection of techniques has to fit in each stage.

  • Always delivering a personable approach to your learning experience

    We keep our classes to a minimum number to offer the maxim level of support, we also offer extra training if you are struggling. We are also happy to meet for a coffee, either before your courses have started or mid the way. We also offer personal feedback as the coach is working with you directly

Head Coach

Steven Walter

Self-defence instructor to Women and LGBTQ+ Community, Martial Arts for 31yrs and the fitness industry for 15yrs.

Perusing functional self-defence and identifying the key issues with modern self-defence and the relationship with gender-based violence (GBV).

I would like to positively affect people’s lives who lack confidence skills by introducing them to a non-bias, simple self-defence approach that empowers confidence to women and members of the lgbtq+ community and anyone that could be a victim of male toxicity and violence by delivering a functional and practical approach that can address the rising gender-based violence issue and address the lack of consideration within the martial art industry for the various degrees of abuse and violence towards women and the lgbtq+ community with my programmes.

I became passionate about this after the realisation that the abuse I had suffered at variant degrees in my life were not normal. (a trick that abusers play that for some reason is linked to social norms). Victim blaming is still very much present in society and abusers know how to work the system.

How is it ok that a person can be raped yet feel so ashamed they’re willing to just let it go and move on with their life, this is clearly because of how male toxic behaviour has dominated the world to the extent of controlling the victims even after the crime has been committed. This is the same for many types of abuse and it’s upsetting!

In my case, I have always been made to feel I'm being silly, that what had happened (twice) didn't happen the way it did and that society wouldn't support my claims. In fact, the few times I have mentioned some of the things that happened, people have laughed at me.

If I felt like that about my own personal stuff, I can see that what’s going on around me in regards to GBV and abusers are crippling people, and is deemed as socially acceptable/norm.

If you would like to know more about what I offer please dm me or visit www.brightonwomensselfdefence.co.uk for more info.

  • Martial Arts Experience

    I started martial arts at the age of 8, where I studded Kyokushin karate and took an interest in Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune Do

    Sometime after that, I have trained in

    MMA: Mixed Martial Arts
    Muay Thai
    Boxing
    Krav Mage
    And currently practising BJJ

    and have taken many self defence coaching workshops along the way

    equaling just over 31yrs of experience

  • Experience with Abuse

    Like many, I have been the victim of physiological and physical abuse and know first-hand the effects that can have on your confidence

    My personal experience started at home but then work find its way into school. I went to a special needs school and as a result, we often become targets

    Even though I did martial arts at the younger stages of my life it didn’t help with my confidence, as I wouldn’t go outside often and found myself withdrawing from people's engenal

    as time went on I became more awheare of what I could do and stoppedlissening to what I count do, however the bullying only stopped a few years ago as people have become more expecting of spelling erres (it’s redickless I know)

    However, I have also been the victim of rape, which is pretty hard to explain given my current size, shape and skills, although non of that should matter, rape is rape regardless of gender, shape or size

    Despite that self defence has also got me out of a lot of trouble and in more than one occasion I have had to lean on my skills, thankfully

    However what they missed was the more complicated and physiological elements of self defence with is what I know believe to be the main aspect of women self defence, along with the physical skills

  • My Personal Why

    Aside from my own experience being a catalyst for wanting to do something like this. It started when a friend opened up to me about her experiences with toxic masculinity and rape.

    Once this door was opened up more and more family members and friends told me about what happened to them

    this was when I decided to do some reached that started with Gender-Based Valence before turning on to the self defence systems out there today

    It appears that they are set up with the old school self defence thinking driving it. witch is mostly from the male perspective and they seem to overlook key problems and states rounding gender-based valence

    The realisation that something is missing and that thing, is pretty important to women’s safety

    When a whole industry is missing some key information about something as serious as gender-based violence

    I can’t help but stick my nose in, protocol when it’s about a subject I’m passionate about ‘equality’